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Talk To Your Employer

It may be a slow process but, very gradually, employers are waking
up to the fact that providing reasonable working conditions for parents by adopting flexible working practices needn't cost a fortune with little
prospect of a return for their money. Family friendly working arrangements can actually provide excellent value for money and be good for business. Happier employees and happier employers.

 

Becoming a parent doesn't automatically mean that your brain turns to mashed potato, so show your employer that you mean business by thinking through the issues from their perspective as well as yours. You may find that they’re more flexible than you imagined.


The trick here is to think about the working options from both sides of the employment wall. Do your homework. Check out your options; sound out others who've tried them; decide which is likely to be the best for you and your employer and then find the right time to make the approach.


1. Check Out The Options

The most common options are:

  • Full-time
  • Part-time
  • Flexitime - working to a core time (and a set number of hours to be worked per week), but with the added flexibility of being able to vary times to start and finish work. Hours lost one week can be made up the next. Extra time worked can be banked and taken as leave at a later date.
  • Jobsharing - two people sharing one full-time job.
  • Compressed Hours Working - working fewer, but longer, days each week
  • Weekend Working
  • Term-time working - a normal full-or part-time job, but one which allows you to take unpaid leave during school holidays.
  • School Hours Working
  • Home Working
  • Career Break - Absence from employment to look after (normally young) children.
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Know your rights. The legal picture about employee rights is complicated and constantly moving. To check out your rights, contact Parents at Work or New Ways to Work (click on the links button, or here)

2. Talk To Others Who've Tried Them Out

What sounds great in theory, may be a complete nightmare in practice. Unclear expectations, unscrupulous employers, a changing legal picture, and lack of written agreements are just some of the things that add to the confusion. If you think you know what you'd like to do, seek out other parents who have tried it already and ask their advice.

3. Decide Which Is Most Likely To Work Best For You, Your Job & Your Employer.

Think about the nature of your existing job. Does it lend itself to a particular working arrangement more than another? Think about the benefits to you and your boss.

4. Make The Approach

  • Do your homework
  • Write your proposal down.
  • Find a good time for your boss - avoid a casual corridor chat. Make an appointment.
  • Present your case - and the benefits of your proposal - as much from their point of view as yours.
  • Be positive about why you want to do this - don't apologise.
  • Pre-empt their questions.
 
 
To read more about how real parents have approached the issue, click on It Worked for Me in the left hand menu bar, or click here.
 
 

"More and more employers are discovering that it makes good business sense to invest in working mums and dads. Parentalk is playing an important role in helping employers and employees to find positive solutions to the everyday challenges faced by parents."

Rt Hon Jacqui Smith MP, Minister for Schools, formerly Deputy Minister for
Women and Equality
 

 
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